Today’s podcast is a coaching topic of the fear of success and failure, it’s something I taught on the Release course based on questions that came up.
I explore the following concept below.
Why is that we find it so much easier to pay attention to, what could go wrong?
What if it doesn’t work?
What’s not working?
What still needs to be done?
And don’t forget, what if I fail?
I hear all of this. And it is important to acknowledge all of this.
But there’s always a flip side.
What if this is right?
What if it does work?
What has gone well?
What have I done?
Rarely do we sit in the contrasting thoughts 50:50.
Most often, we will sit in the 95%, of feeling of 95% of all the things that could go wrong.
But if you can tip the scales into 51%, just 1% more of what could be right. That’s all you need.
So acknowledge everything that won’t work out.
But then focus your attention on the other possibility.
What if it all worked out better than I imagined, if I took the leap, and I went and found out.
Timestamps:
02:06 Reading the social post I made
03:07 What do I notice in the context of release?
04:36 Two faces of discomfort
05:41 How does fear of failure ply out in a relationship?
08:16 Success and how it manifests is a big energy
10:03 Sharing how I feel like every leap that I take could be a failure
12:27 How do I deal with my fear of failure and fear of success?
13:23 When is the best time to start the affirmations, goal setting, and mantras?
14:24 Why you should not sit in the fear of success and fear of failure?
